Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Baby steps

It's been a while since our last entry, but I wanted to check in and let everyone know how our little guy is doing. Over the last three months, we've gotten more baby teeth, had a 1st birthday, gone on our first whole family beach vacation, added a nanny to our family and lost a parent/grandparent (Ryan's father). It's been an eventful few months, with no sign of slowing down anytime soon.

Torsten had a follow up with his urologist today to run a second set of urodynamics tests. Although the tests were still invasive, this round went much more smoothly than the last. He only really cried when they put in the catheter and when they removed it - he was quite the trooper throughout the actual procedure. I did have to do some mid-test singing, but I've done more embarrassing things for much less. We were able to meet with the doctor afterward and although he believes there could be an issue with bladder spasms, he said that there is an equal chance that what he's seeing could be normal for Torsten's age. We will need to go back for a sonogram in one year, but nothing between now and then, which we see as very good news!

We also had Torsten's one year checkup a couple of weeks ago and even though he's not huge, he's up in weight to the 20th percentile (up from being off the bottom of the charts). We're thrilled that he's growing and is back on the charts for size! Unfortunately, he's still quite behind in development - he hasn't crawled, pulled himself up on anything to stand, doesn't do any kind of baby babbling, seems to be having some eye and possibly vision issues and still isn't eating finger/whole foods. Because of this, his doctor has started him on both physical and speech therapy and suggested that we see his ophthalmologist again. We will have his first therapy session at our house on August 5th. We followed up with his ophthalmologist yesterday and he believes that the muscles in Torsten's eyes are keeping them straight about 90% of the time, which he says is good. He is also sending us to The Retina Institute to have this as well as his vision checked in more detail.

On the very bright side, Torsten is still constantly smiling and laughing, loves playing peekaboo and thinks it's hilarious, still loves reading and already has Nanny Emily wrapped around his chubby little finger. I hate that I'm no longer able to spend every minute with him myself, but we've managed to add a wonderful and loving person to our family and I'm reassured everyday that Torsten is in good hands and is loving life. We are so proud of our gentle, kind and loving little guy. He's so happy and sweet and every day is brighter because of him. We're sure that he'll catch up and that he's just decided to rest a little after a very eventful first year in this world. He'll do everything in his own time.

We hope everyone is having a great summer and that we get to see you each again soon!

Lots of love,

Ryan, Tasha & Torsten


Because just eating a cake is boring - June 28, 2013

5 comments:

  1. Hi Tasha - this is the first I've read from your blog, so I read through all of it. I hadn't heard about Torsten's medical problems - you've been through so much with him! He's lucky to have such great parents. I can't imagine anyone better to be his mom! love to all of you! Jeri

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    1. Thanks Jeri! It's definitely been an eventful year, but we realize more everyday what an awesome little guy we have and how lucky we are to be his parents. He is just a happy little bundle of joy! Lots of love to you guys too!

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  2. Torsten is such a little doll! And what great parents he has.

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    1. Well thanks, Jan! We think he's pretty cute too. ;)

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  3. Just read your entire blog. My 9 week old son has a sacral dimple and we go for an ultrasound in 2 days. I was googling for some insight on what to except when I ran across your blog. You all are troopers. But this gives me a little peace of mind knowing that if his cord is tethered there will light at the end of the tunnel! Sending prayers your way,

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